When you look back on your life, you may have noticed that you “fell into” your primary relationships. You may never have considered that you could consciously create them.
Without realizing it, we are drawn into relationships by our unconscious patterns and triggers which are seeking resolution. We are not consciously aware of this and we fumble our way through.
We have a choice. We can create our relationships differently. We can take responsibility for our own healing and learning and begin to understand how to create conscious relationships.
Just like we do in other areas of our lives, we need to pay attention to and nurture our relationship in order for it to thrive.
Here are some considerations when creating conscious relationships:
1) We are open to learning from any issues or concerns that arise.
When we see things about the other person that we don’t like—or about ourselves—we don’t run. Or avoid.
We use these as opportunities to heal and build on our strengths.
We take time to look at it. Together.
2) We allow ourselves to be vulnerable.
We open our hearts and let each other in. We allow ourselves to get close to our partner. And we we believe we will be loved. And that we are worthy of such love.
3) We commit to telling the truth. To each other and to ourselves.
Telling the truth, even when it might hurt the one you are with, is most important.
If you can practice telling your truth, your relationship will remain alive.
When we focus on being radically honest, with ourselves, and with each other, we can move our relationship into the realm of magic.
Alive. Crackling. Magical.
This is what we want our relationships to be.
We are evolving all the time. So are our relationships.
Check in with yourself – what’s happening for you in your relationships?
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