It’s right there waiting for you to claim it.
You may relate to A’s story – She so badly wanted someone to show her that she was worthy of unconditional love. She wanted men to prove to her that she was not broken and unwanted.
But the truth is: no matter how hard any of them tried, they couldn’t give her what she was truly seeking.
No amount of flowers, romantic getaways and proclamations of eternal love could prove to her that she was lovable, worthy and whole.
When she began to recognize this pattern of looking for love in all the wrong places, she was horrified at how deeply this wounded and dissatisfying self-view ran through generations of her family.
And she could not stand the thought of experiencing it herself, and of passing it down to her future children.
It seemed as though there was only one choice: find self-love or give up on love forever.
I worked with A to help her recognize the primary relationship within her upon which all other relationships are built upon. The relationship with herself.
If we don’t commit to walking hand-in-hand with our authentic and pure Self, then we have nothing to give to others.
I hope this awakens something new in you – a new paradigm within which to view yourself and your life.
In time, A no longer felt the desire to base her life on finding “the one” to settle down with. Because she had already found ‘him’ – inside herself.
Take your hands and repeat – I take you (your name), My Highest Self, to be my partner. I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad… I will love you and honor you all the days of my life.
Today is the day you can marry yourself.
And the best part: This union is something you can count on lasting forever.
While relationships with others wax and wane, your partner in this union cannot and will not leave you or come into separation of any sort.
Because its with yourself.
The good news is that no princes need to save us. There is no need to be perfect to be loved. We are already wanted. Already loved. Already celebrated and appreciated in a that no one else could ever do.
No need to look for love and happiness outside of yourself, because now you know it is within you already.
Instead, you can find relationships that are based on spreading the joy and adoration that you already feel inside of you.
This February 14th, no matter what kind of relationship that you find yourself in, celebrate the union between you and you. Buy yourself flowers, go out to dinner with loved ones, write a beautiful love poem to yourself – treat yourself the way you’d want anyone else to treat you.
love Kim, xo.
If you’re interested in private sessions with me, please get in touch – sessions are available in-person or by Skype – and can be very useful for unraveling conditioned patterns that you take to be true and discovering that you can live from your true essence in a way that is already whole, peaceful, and at ease.