What Makes All the Difference? Give Yourself What You Need

October 29, 2014

Time, attention and love.
You
may feel that you didn’t receive as much as you needed. You may feel hurt and wounded. The good news?
Now – with support – you can open to receive what you need.

Support is necessary. Open to it. Let it in.
Welcome it with open arms.

Allowing yourself to be supported may feel outside of your comfort zone. That’s ok, those feelings will pass. The support you allow yourself to receive will help you move out of reactive emotional patterns that keep happening in your life and allow you to heal.

You may feel shaky at first. That’s ok, it is a part of the process.

After your shakiness, things will change. Improve for the better. This is a good thing.

Think of it this way, if you were driving to a new location, you would use your GPS. Allowing yourself to be supported is like a GPS for your life – you get to choose and say to yourself – I want my life to be better and easier, so I want to be supported.

And just like that, by the act of reaching out, your life IS EASIER – often in every way.

Many of us suffer with core wounds and feelings of unworthiness and shame. We have core beliefs about ourselves that we may not be aware of, and we can get caught in reactive emotional patterns that we act out in our lives.

These feelings are held deep within us and we often aren’t aware of them. If you experience repetitive struggles in your life – your core wounds, beliefs and emotional patterns are at play.

This can change. With awareness, gentleness, compassion and ongoing support, change is possible.

What choices are you making for your life?

Are you operating on automatic pilot and doing what you’ve always done?

Are you living true to yourself?

If you are currently in a cycle of struggle, it may be time to go within and connect with your inner self. You can learn how to honour the truth of yourself and begin living from that truthful, healthy place.

When you make this choice, you will begin to make healthy life choices the standard from which you live.

As you learn to trust yourself and you begin to awaken, you will begin to know instinctively what you need to do to support yourself and how this makes you and those around you, feel more grounded, calm and peaceful.

You can get caught in the same feelings and patterns of behaviour – isolation, loneliness, struggle, darkness. You begin to believe that there is no light left within you. There is.

You may never have learned to be gentle with yourself and to practice self-compassion and understanding. In the midst of your struggles – allow yourself to be supported, nurtured and deeply understood.

The time is now.

Our lives are meant to be enjoyable and easy. It truly can be this way.

We make our lives difficult because we’re doing things the way we’ve always done them. The way that we feel we deserve. We are pushing ourselves AND we’re believing things about ourselves that simply aren’t true.

What can you do?

Make feeling good a priority.

Begin to understand your core wounds, core beliefs and reactive emotional patterns that keep coming up in your life. Once you know this and begin to heal it within yourself, you’re life will change for the better.

Let your life be easy – give yourself a new choice.

Within you is the key to unlock new doors in your life.
Will you open them?

Take that first step – and let’s talk about the possibilities.

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When I came to you I felt confused, disconnected and broken. Now, I'm on my way to feeling whole. Thank you.
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