Psychotherapy can change your life in real and significant ways.
Creating a connected, one-on-one relationship within psychotherapy or customized mentoring will help you to understand yourself ‘in relationship’ to others. You will not only learn about yourself in all the ways you hope to, you will also learn about yourself from what happens between us during our therapeutic relationship.
When working with an empathetic therapist, you will develop more fully into your truth and increase your capacity for self-esteem development. You will find your ‘centre’ and operate from this grounded, solid and alive place within you.
You will increase your capacity to become more real and integrated in all of your relationships – where your energy is always flowing into connection. You will also bring yourself more fully and clearly into your relationships – and will enhance your self, the other and the relationship as a whole.
Relationships are one of the greatest sources of both satisfaction and stress in our lives. Relationships often act as mirrors, and they can reflect for us what we need to learn about ourselves.
Relationships can be intimate, as with partners, family, close friends and lovers – or they can also be more casual as is often the case with professional and social relationships. No matter what the situation, all of our relationships are fertile ground for intense feelings. Frequently these feelings result in misunderstandings, anger, hurt, disappointment, distress, helplessness and despair – and they are a sensitive source of personal pain as well as great joy.
Emotional Understanding and Heart-Centred Awakening
Whether you are in a relationship or have difficulty forming different types of relationships, this can be a major source of emotional distress.
External factors, which we can’t avoid in life, sometimes combined with unrecognized early attachment issues can cause us confusion and pain. If the pain were physical, most people wouldn’t hesitate to go to a professional.
Psychotherapy can address the underlying causes of emotional difficulties and help to transform your symptoms.
Our individual struggles and needs are different, and there is no one answer for everyone. Becoming aware of and understanding your feelings and behaviors by yourself and within relationships, are the first steps towards enabling you to bring positive changes to your life and to your overall well-being.
You may be struggling in your relationship, suffering from anxiety or depression, experiencing low self-esteem, suffering from an eating disorder or grieving a loss. You may also be in transition and facing questions of identity, meaning or purpose in your life.
You may be facing familiar, nagging feelings of unworthiness or stuckness and ‘just going through the motions of life’. You may feel angry, sad or frustrated at the patterns in your life. You may want to move towards lasting change. You could be facing a crisis but you don’t have to be.
You may be suffering from a loss of connection with others – and you may feel numb, without knowing exactly why. Your self-esteem and feelings of well-being may be suffering.
When facing difficulties in our lives, it can be helpful to engage with someone who listens deeply, understands and helps you make sense of your experience.
This process will guide you through the dark places that are negatively impacting your life and help you move through and beyond them. Together we will identify your difficulties and help you face your challenges in new ways.
Everything is possible. Awareness is the first step.
I will be both supportive and active and help you create new kinds of understanding and possibility, so you can progress, at your pace, to meet your goals. I will help you increase your awareness, aliveness and joy.
You can choose how we work together:
- In a chair – sessions can address emotional struggles, chronic pain, and relationship concerns, and support during life transitions. I use a variety of methods, including verbal dialogue, Relational Psychotherapy, Integrated Body Psychotherapy, Embodied Mindfulness and somatic practices. (in-person or via Skype)
- On the floor (thick padded mat) – sessions are a hands-on form based on body-systems work, somatic movement therapy. Movement sessions can address chronic pain, holding patterns that cause excessive tension, injury recovery, energy system imbalances and emotional blocks.
Read more about Areas of Specialty here – Couples Therapy, Eating Disorders Therapy, Trauma Therapy, Career Transitions, Midlife Transitions – Divorce Support & Recovery, and Family of Origin/Working with Your Shadow.
How Love Feels
Soft, warm, fuzzy and open. That’s how it feels. Love.
Deep, dark, and safe, I’m surrounded.
There’s no holding back or heaviness about what’s next – just breezy abandon.
The bolts have loosened on the rusty limbs, and the heat warms the stiff places.
No need to hold on, hold back, clench, stiffen, or fear.
There’s only the ripple and waves of this moment – nothing else matters.
Yesterdays and tomorrows are transparent and free, unattached.
Leaves flutter in the breeze and brush across my skin.
In the distance the wind rustles.
When I sink deeper into myself, I smile.
I feel my feet on the ground, and my eyes tingle.
I rest centred in the beauty of now.